British graduate students are criticized by relatives for not wasting their time, and then they fight back.

A lot of pals mentioned last time, and I carefully went through everything. But honestly, I didn't have the courage to argue with relatives. Thought it's better to avoid unnecessary trouble, but! But yesterday, I saw someone talking about this again, saying all sorts of things about how people back in the homeland are, and subtly criticizing me. This time, I just couldn't take it anymore. I directly said, "Others can even be the top scorer in the college entrance exam, look at how your kid is doing, not that impressive, huh?" Then the relative said, "Going abroad for studies is supposed to be classy, but you lack manners. I don't think you'll be of any use when you come back." I was a bit agitated and replied, "Still way better than you." She didn't respond, and I didn't leave the group. Next time there's a discussion, I'm ready to clap back. Last time, I was upset in the middle of the night, couldn't sleep well for days. It's refreshing to fire back now.