Honestly, international students should have some understanding of social etiquette 🥺

When I was preparing for my second master's degree, I emailed my tutor for my first master's, asking for a recommendation letter. My tutor didn't refuse me, but she made it clear that we hadn't communicated much, so she didn't know me well enough to write one. She didn't know who she would be writing to or what to write about. However, she did express that she hoped I could show her my usual essays, projects, CV, and anything else that could help her understand me better. Only then could she assist me with the recommendation. Actually, many teachers abroad feel that Chinese students can be a bit "aloof" because there's little interaction outside of class. Then suddenly, they receive emails asking for recommendation letters. It's not that teachers don't want to help; they genuinely don't know you! So international students should also understand some social etiquette! 1. During class, if there's a Q&A session, try to communicate more with the teacher to leave a deeper impression and learn more. 2. After class, if the teacher has time, further discuss class content. Teachers are willing to engage! 3. Schedule office hours to discuss academic matters with the teacher. It's okay to ask for feedback on your papers in advance. Your instructor can provide suggestions for your final essays. 4. Normally, personal tutors don't teach you, but it's good to keep them updated on your recent activities to help them understand you better. This way, if you encounter problems, your tutor can assist you promptly. 5. Even after graduation, it's good to send occasional greetings to your teachers via email. Don't lose contact after graduation, and remember, reaching out should not just be about asking for recommendation letters. Some teachers may not reply, but keeping good contact might lead to opportunities they remember you for! Maintain good communication; you never know, teachers might have some great projects in mind for you!